percent of high school students have felt peer pressure at some point in their life. (Cathrine Reed, “23 Insightful Peer Pressure Statistics”). Being a teenager with grades, tests, college, and jobs is already incredibly stressful. However, on top of the pressure from your peers, can be a lot. Peer pressure is often spoken about but not often truly understood. Peer pressure doesn’t need to be aggressive and demanding; it can be subtle to the point you don't realize you're being pressured. Peer pressure is often used when discussing behaviors that aren’t necessarily socially acceptable like experimenting with drugs or alcohol.
However this isn’t always the case, peer pressure can be connected with bullying, dressing a certain way, socializing with specific groups, and sports. Kayla Murphy, a senior at says, “People typically get peer pressured into stuff like drugs, alcohol, sneaking out, or going to parties.” Peer pressure can come in different forms, from positive to negative, and spoken to silent. Negative Peer pressure is the most commonly discussed example of peer pressure.
According to sedonasky.org, How Does Peer Pressure Affect A Teen’s Development, “Negative peer pressure refers to the influence exerted by peers to engage in harmful, risky behaviors or go against one's values and beliefs. It involves feeling pressured to conform to the attitudes, actions, or decisions of others, even if they are detrimental or contrary to one's well-being.” Negative peer pressure increases stress and anxiety, lowers self-esteem, causes depression, causes academic difficulties, and causes addictive behaviors. Aliyah Thoman, a junior at says, “I believe there is such a thing as positive peer pressure and it helps you better yourself or make a difference for you and your community.” Peer pressure isn’t always negative.(What are the 6 Types of Peer Pressure) Teens look to their peers for guidance and one peer's good example can go a long way. Positive peer pressure includes more support and encouragement than persuasion or pressure.
Teens demonstrate the behavior of their peers and this can lead to positive academic changes, putting a stop to bullying, and trying new things. Peer pressure can be spoken or silent (“What are the 6 Types of Peer Pressure”). Spoken peer pressure is when a peer directly asks, persuades, or suggests that another peer needs to perform or partake in a specific action or behavior. Spoken peer pressure is typically more direct and upfront. If this happens in a group setting it can be incredibly difficult to stick to one's personal beliefs.
Silent peer pressure is when one is exposed to the actions and behaviors of their peers and is left to decide whether they want to follow along. This is common with fashion choices, personal interactions, and social groups. Younger teens lack the maturity to control certain impulses and long-term decisions and due to this, they're easily influenced by older and more popular peers. Kara Smith, a junior at says, “If my friends were doing something I disagreed with I’d talk to them about it, and if they continued to do it I’d stay away from them while they were doing it.” Positive peer pressure can encourage and influence someone to make positive choices regarding academics, bullying, or trying something new. However Negative peer pressure can make you lose a sense of judgment, negatively shift morals, shake your sense of identity, ruin self-confidence, increase anxiety, and partake in dangerous activities that can be life-altering.
Not falling for peer pressure can feel difficult however you just need to understand your values and beliefs and set boundaries for yourself. You can also try and offer an alternative if you're being pressured to partake in a specific activity you don't agree with. However if the pressure gets too much do not hesitate to seek outside help. Peer pressure is concerning, common, and comes in many forms. This can make it hard to detect and stop. However, It's important to surround yourself with positive influences.
People who will support your values, beliefs, and boundaries, and would never attempt to persuade you to do something they know you wouldn’t want to without their influence.